crying...

"Heavy hearts, like heavy clouds in the sky, are best relieved by the letting of a little water. "
…yes, it would be best to cry if there’s something bothering you, something that you want to take off your chest, something that is hurting you, something that is making you think and think more harder each day, something that is heavy…then cry…
"it won’t make you less of a man if you cry…"
…yes, i do admire men who cry. men who talks and shed out their tears and admit that there’s something bothering them and would like to feel comforted. it won’t make less of he’s being a man. it won’t hurt if he cries. it won’t hurt if he confides. the truth is, he knows he’s just an ordinary being, with problems, with doubts, with fears, with all those that hurt him and yet he knows, still he knows how to cry…
"Heaven knows we need never be ashamed of our tears, for they are rain upon the blinding dust of earth, overlying our hard hearts. "
"The soul would have no rainbow had the eyes no tears." … it’s as if…
"the eyes is the window to his soul…"
"Time engraves our faces with all the tears we have not shed. "
…yes…cry if you want to…cry if you need to…for if you keep it to yourself, not only will you be carrying something all your life but will also show traces in your face…
"It is some relief to weep; grief is satisfied and carried off by tears. "
…yes…and by the way, confiding is a very big help…
"Those who do not know how to weep with their whole heart don’t know how to laugh either."
…that’s why when he laughs, you’ll know that it is a ‘true laugh’ for he has already shed off and weep what was hurting him…
"Tears are the safety valve of the heart when too much pressure is laid on it. "
…that’s why you will admire more a person if he realizes that smoking and drinking won’t help him, won’t take away his pains and hurting…it would even add up to what he is feeling and be sick…
"I didn’t know why I cried, but I knew instantly that when you spoke to me or just hang on there, the tears would fly out of my eyes and the sobs would fly out of my throat and I’d cry… I could feel the tears brimming and sloshing in me like water in a glass that is unsteady and too full."
…i understand…just here to listen…and yes, help if i can…
"tears are unspoken words…"
…you need not talk…as soon as i heard the splash of that tiny drop of tear, then i know there is something wrong…
"people that laugh a lot, cry a lot because it only takes one smile to hide a million tears…"
…true enough? hhmmm…oh well, i would say yes…

…then cry and weep…again, it won’t make you less of being a man…crying won’t hurt you but would take away your hurt…
…i’m just here…you can cry on me…on my shoulder… and i know that i can always cry on you…on your shoulder…
written : Tuesday, October 25th, 2005